Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Help for Toxic Relationships
Dr. Rhoberta Shaler (1945-2024) was a specialist in empowering the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult, toxic people she called #Hijackals to recognize emotional abuse, verbal abuse and coercive control that they may be experiencing, to realize the patterns, and reclaim their power.
Dr. Shaler coined the term, Hijackals®, to offer a non-clinical word for those people who are constantly scavenging for power, status and control. They blame, shame, justify and deflect...and often are seen by those outside the relationship as charming, fun, thoughtful and doting. It's crazy-making!
And you are not alone, nor are you at fault for the way you are being treated by a Hiackal.
Dr. Shaler passed away on April 3, 2024. Her legacy lives on here:
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