Creaturely Loneliness: Desire, Grief, and the Hope of Encounter / Macie Bridge & Ryan McAnnally-L...

Loneliness seems to be part of what it means to be a relational being. Does that mean loneliness can never really be “solved”? Here’s one way to think about loneliness: As a gap between relational expectation and social reality—something that signals our essentially relational, reciprocal nature as human beings.


This episode is part 6 of a series, SOLO, which explores the theological, moral, and psychological dimensions of loneliness, solitude, and being alone.


In this reflective conclusion to the series, Macie Bridge and Ryan McAnnally-Linz explore loneliness not as a pathology to solve but as a universal, creaturely experience that reveals our longing for relationship. Drawing on insights from conversations throughout the series, they consider how loneliness emerges in the gap between what we desire relationally and what we actually have, and why this gap might be intrinsic to being human. They discuss solitude as a vital space for discernment, self-understanding, and listening for God; how risk is inherent to relationships; why the church holds unique potential for embodied community; and how even small interactions with neighbors and strangers can meet real needs. Together they reflect on grief, social isolation, resentment, vulnerability, and the invitation to turn loneliness into attentiveness—to God, to ourselves, and to our neighbors, human and non-human alike.


Episode Highlights


“Loneliness is just baked into our creaturely lives.”


“There really is no solution to loneliness—and also that’s okay.”


“We invite a certain level of risk because we invite another person closer to our own human limits.”


“There’s no blanket solution. We are all experiencing this thing, but we are all experiencing it differently.”


“I realized I could be a gift to her, and she could be a gift to me, even in that small moment.”


About Macie Bridge


Macie Bridge is Operations Coordinator for the Yale Center for Faith & Culture. Macie is originally from the small town of Groton, Massachusetts, where she was raised in the United Church of Christ. As an undergraduate at Trinity College in Hartford, CT, Macie studied English literature, creative writing, and religious studies. She spent a year in Chapel Hill, North Carolina with the Episcopal Service Corps after receiving her B.A. There, she served as Events & Communications Coordinator for L’Arche North Carolina—an emerging L’Arche community, and therefore an incredible “crash course” into the nonprofit world.


About Ryan McAnnally-Linz


Ryan McAnnally-Linz is Associate Director of the Yale Center for Faith & Culture and a theologian focusing on flourishing, meaning, and the moral life. He is co-author of Public Faith in Action and The Home of God with Miroslav Volf, and Life Worth Living: A Guide to What Matters Most with Miroslav Volf and Matt Croasmun.


Show Notes

• Loneliness as Creaturely Condition
• Loneliness as “baked into our creaturely lives,” not a sign of brokenness or failure
• The “gap between what we want and what we have” in relationships
• Loneliness as a universal human experience across ages and contexts
• Solitude and Discernment
• Solitude as a place to listen more clearly to God and oneself
• Time alone clarifies intuition, vocation, and identity.
• Solitude shapes self-knowledge outside societal expectations.
• Community, Church, and Embodiment
• Churches can be embodied spaces of connection yet still feel lonely.
• Hospitality requires more than “hi”; it requires digging deeper into personal encounter.
• Embodied church life resists technological comforts that reduce vulnerability.
• Grief, Risk, and Vulnerability
• Distinguishing grief-loneliness from social-isolation loneliness
• Relationships inherently involve risk, limits, and potential hurt.
• Opening oneself to others requires relinquishing entitlement.
• Everyday Encounters and Ecological Attention
• Small moments with neighbors (like taking a stranger’s photo) can be meaningful.
• Loneliness can signal attention toward creaturely neighbors—birds, bugs, landscapes.
• Turning loneliness outward can widen our capacity for care.

Production Notes

• This podcast featured Macie Bridge
• Edited and Produced by Evan Rosa
• Hosted by Evan Rosa
• Production Assistance by Alexa Rollow, Emily Brookfield, and Hope Chun
• A Production of the Yale Center for Faith & Culture at Yale Divinity School https://faith.yale.edu/about
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