The One Mental Shift That Changed My Entire Life

In this powerful episode of DEAD Talks, David sits down with returning guest Alysa Conger to explore the one choice that can completely shift how we move through grief—and life. While the conversation begins with personal stories of loss, suicide, and the rawness of grief, it quickly expands into something far more universal: how our beliefs shape our reality.

We dive into the mindset shift from victimhood to empowerment, discuss how grief doesn’t have to define your entire life, and break down the idea that healing begins with the decision to believe things can get better.

This episode isn't just for those grieving—it's for anyone feeling stuck, weighed down by their past, or unsure how to move forward. We talk about the power of presence, small daily "glimmers," intuition, and learning how to choose a different narrative—one rooted in hope and inner freedom..

For more on our guest Alysa Conger follow her at @alysamconger on instagram:   / alysamconger  

Website: https://www.hellowhosaidthat.com/

Topics Covered:

Why belief is the starting point for healing
How grief and growth can coexist
The connection between intuition and clarity
Choosing empowerment over despair
Why getting better doesn’t mean forgetting

From the stigma around positivity in pain, to spiritual awakenings, suicide loss, intuitive living, and even lost wallets (yes, it ties in!), this episode brings humor, healing, and hard truths. Whether you're grieving, growing, or just need to feel less alone—this one hits deep.

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DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh.

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