When An Avoidant And You BOTH Go No Contact This Happens Next | Avoidant Attachment

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When An Avoidant And You BOTH Go No Contact This Happens Next | Avoidant Attachment
In this 33-minute motivational speech, we break down what really happens when you AND an avoidant both go No Contact. 🔥
When neither person reaches out, the push–pull cycle pauses… and the truth comes forward: who can live without the connection, who is watching quietly, who feels relief, who feels regret, and who returns with real effort vs. empty breadcrumbs. 😶‍🌫️💔
This video is not about punishing anyone. It’s about healing, self-respect, boundaries, and learning how to respond the right way if they come back—so you don’t restart the same emotional rollercoaster. 🧱🕊️

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

0:00 🎬 When you BOTH go no contact: what changes immediately
2:10 🧠 Why avoidants can feel relief first (and what it means)
4:35 📵 Mutual silence vs ghosting (healthy boundary vs avoidance)
6:55 🔄 The “stalemate” phase: when no one speaks first
9:05 🔍 The watching phase (checking you quietly)
11:20 🎭 Breadcrumbs, likes, “hey”… and control tests
13:40 💔 When absence becomes real (and it starts hitting them)
16:10 ✅ Regret vs real change (how to spot effort fast)
18:25 🧱 The boundary that protects you from repeating pain
20:40 💬 What to do if they reach out after silence
22:55 📩 What NOT to say (so you don’t lose your power)
25:10 👑 How to heal while staying silent (no obsession, no spiraling)
27:15 🧭 When to reopen the door vs when to close it forever
29:20 🕊️ Detachment with dignity (peace over patterns)
31:10 🌙 The final truth: consistency or nothing
33:00 ✅ End

✅ WHY WATCH THIS

Understand the stages that often happen when both people stop reaching out. 🧠
Learn how to hold No Contact as a boundary (not a game). 🧱
Get a safe plan for when they return—so you don’t restart the cycle. 👑

🔥 HASHTAGS

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🔎 KEYWORDS

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