There Is only ONE Way to heal from a breakup (Love is Blind Reunion S9)

Therapist reacts Love Is Blind Season 9 — in this video, Dr. Pam Fullerton breaks down the one true way to heal from a breakup, using insights from the Love Is Blind reunion Season 9 to explore growth, accountability, and emotional healing.
Breakups can feel shattering. They don’t just end relationships, they expose patterns, wounds, and truths about ourselves that are often painful to face. In this therapist reaction to Love Is Blind Netflix, I walk through which cast members showed real growth after their breakups and which ones are still repeating the same patterns.
As a licensed therapist and psychologist, I explore what healing actually requires after a breakup, why intention isn’t enough without accountability, and how honesty with yourself becomes the foundation for real change. This reaction video focuses on emotional awareness, self-reflection, and what it truly means to move forward, not just move on.

In this Love Is Blind Season 9 recap, we look at:

Why breakups don’t heal with time alone
The difference between intention and impact in relationships
How defensiveness blocks healing
What real growth looks like after a breakup
Why self-awareness is the one non-negotiable for healing

If you’re navigating heartbreak, reflecting on past relationships, or learning from Love Is Blind reactions, this video offers compassionate, trauma-informed insight to help you understand yourself more deeply.

I’m Dr. Pam Fullerton, therapist and relationship counselor. My goal is never to judge, diagnose, or shame, but to help you learn from relationships so you can heal, grow, and build healthier connections moving forward.

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00:00 – The One Way to Heal After a Breakup
00:07 – Why Time Alone Doesn’t Heal Heartbreak
01:41 – Kacie & Patrick: Intention vs. Impact
02:40 - When “I Was Protecting You” Causes More Harm
06:37 – Accountability, Apologies, and Real Growth
09:58 – Joe & Madison: Why Breakups Get Messy
13:17 – Mixed Signals After a Breakup (Why It Hurts More)
15:07 – Closure, Defensiveness, and Repeating Patterns
17:09 – Nick: Words vs. Emotional Authenticity
19:50 – The Right Words but No Affect
21:43 - Annie's Insight
23:27 – KB & Edmond: Old Wounds in New Relationships
27:04 – The One Choice That Determines Healing After a Breakup

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Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as trauma, and relationship challenges. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.

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Credits:
Created by: Chris Coelen
Genre: Reality
Network: Netflix
Production company: Kinetic Content

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