How to Know if You Are Gay or Bi | Sexuality Expert Explains

Are you asking yourself “Am I gay?”, “Could I be bisexual?”, or feeling unsure where you land on the spectrum of sexuality?

You’re not alone — and you’re not broken. So many of us have asked these same questions, often in silence.

In this honest and compassionate video, we dive deep into the messy, beautiful process of questioning your sexuality.

This isn’t about putting yourself in a box — it’s about giving yourself permission to be curious, to feel what you feel, and to take your time figuring things out.

Whether you’ve always felt “different,” had confusing crushes, or are just starting to explore your feelings, this video offers real talk, support, and reassurance.

You don’t need to have all the answers today — but this might be the video that helps you take your next step.

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