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this episode is the first q&a dilemma session where i answer your submissions on ambition, discipline, identity, relationships, freelancing + more.

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in this episode we cover:
— why balance is a myth and obsession is necessary
— how to know when it’s time to cut people off and detach
— living for your parents vs. building your own life
— the difference between wanting a life vs. wanting the aesthetic of it
— why self-respect looks like disappointing the right people
— how to build loops that make discipline sustainable
— freelancing as the best business model when you have nothing
— how to survive the scary pivot into working for yourself

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🎀 in this video 🎀
[0:00] intro
[1:05] cutting people off & detachment
[6:08] balance, fomo & perfectionism
[11:50] making new friends
[17:59] living for your parents vs. building your own life
[22:27] surviving the pivot into entrepreneurship
[25:37] why freelancing is the best business model when you have nothing

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