Husband Working Too Much? No Intimacy in Marriage | Christian Marriage Advice

In this episode #95 of the No Pillz Podcast, host Gordon McGhee responds to a Christian wife whose husband's relentless work schedule and spending habits have created a crisis in their marriage, leading to a lack of intimacy and communication. She reveals her husband, Husband Working Too Much a law enforcement officer who also does private security , works almost constantly, with their last date being five years ago. They've had sex only four times in the past year, despite her efforts to be supportive and even losing 40 pounds.

Gordon McGhee addresses the wife's desperation and offers hard-hitting, biblical advice for couples struggling with workaholism, lack of connection, and sexual frustration.

Key Discussion Points:

The Danger of Workaholism: Discussing the "rich fool" parable, Gordon stresses that wealth and financial freedom aren't worth sacrificing time with your spouse and children, as tomorrow is not promised.

The Marriage Bed: Citing 1 Corinthians 7:5, Gordon emphasizes the scriptural responsibility of a married couple not to "defraud" one another of sexual intimacy, highlighting that four times a year is unhealthy and opens the door to temptation.

Communication Breakdown: Addressing the husband's refusal to talk about "intense" or even "light" subjects, Gordon asserts that communication is the vital key to a successful marriage, and a partner's selfishness is no excuse.

Seeking Help: Advice is given to get clear answers on potential issues like cheating, porn addiction, or erectile dysfunction and to consider involving a trusted, balanced third party or counselor to avoid settling for misery

Don't settle for misery in your marriage! If you are in a similar situation, whether as the struggling wife or the workaholic husband, this video offers a direct and faith-focused perspective.

Scripture Reference: 1 Corinthians 13:3-8 and 1 Corinthians 7:5.

Host: Gordon McGhee Podcast: No Pillz Podcast - Love Fully Scripted