Why Does My Spouse Hate Me?!

When the person who once said “I do” suddenly hates your living guts… you start to wonder what went wrong.

In this raw, redemptive conversation, Ren and Adelé open up about the darkest chapter in their marriage — the season of hatred, limerence, and self-justification that almost destroyed them.

They unpack:
Why spouses vilify each other during separation or affairs
The psychology of limerence and self-justification
How to respond when your spouse’s love turns to hatred
Why your growth sometimes makes things worse before it gets better
The redemptive power of consistency, grace, and time

If you’re standing for your marriage — even when your spouse wants out — this episode will give you clarity, strength, and hope to keep going.

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Disclaimer:
Ren & Adelé provide relationship coaching, faith-based guidance, and general education. This content is not a substitute for competent professional advice, including but not limited to medical care, mental health services, or legal counsel. No results are guaranteed. By watching, you agree to take full responsibility for your personal decisions and wellbeing.