Why Being Patient With An Avoidant Backfires

Patience with an avoidant doesn't save the connection - it freezes it. You think you're being mature and understanding but you're actually destroying attraction.

In this video, Lucia explains why patience backfires when there's emotional access but no forward movement - and how attraction quietly erodes when you keep waiting instead of changing the dynamic.

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Lucia is an internationally known dating/relationship expert, author of "Lucia's Lessons of Love", former host of "The Art of Love" TV and radio shows, a syndicated columnist and keynote speaker.

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