The Fragile Victim Narcissist: Why They Say “Why Do You Make Things So Difficult?”

One of the most ironic things a narcissist will ever say is:
“Why do you have to make things so difficult?”
Usually said right after they created the chaos.
This video explains the vulnerable (covert) narcissist — often mistaken for someone fragile, misunderstood, or constantly hard done by. Instead of controlling loudly, they control through guilt, pity, and emotional exhaustion.
In this video, you’ll learn:
What a vulnerable narcissist really is
How they use victimhood to avoid accountability
Why every conversation revolves around their suffering
What they actually mean when they say you’re “difficult”
Common traits of the fragile victim narcissist
How to respond without over-explaining, rescuing, or shrinking
When you finally set boundaries or stop enabling them, you become the problem — not their behaviour.
You weren’t difficult.
You were finally honest.
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