Locktober 2025: The Orgasm Control Challenge That Makes Men Better Lovers

What if locking it up could actually unlock better sex?

Welcome to Locktober 2025, the orgasm control challenge that’s helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Lilith Fox — a queer, BIPOC, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous Board-Certified Sexologist and Certified Sexuality Educator who actually practices chastity play with her partner.

Together, we’re breaking down:
🔒 What male chastity and orgasm control really are (and what they’re not)
🔥 Why control and delayed gratification can heighten desire and improve intimacy
🧠 How this challenge rewires masculine conditioning and turns focus into foreplay
💋 Tips for couples curious to try Locktober together — safely, confidently, and playfully

This isn’t about shame or denial. It’s about expanding your definition of pleasure, learning self-control, and discovering new ways to connect with your partner.

So if you’ve ever wondered what the deal is with Locktober or why some men swear orgasm control made them better in bed — this one’s for you.

Find out more about Lilith at: https://lilithfoxx.com/

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Disclaimer: This content is intended for adult audiences and is for educational and informational purposes only. No explicit content is shown or described in graphic detail.

📌 This video discusses gender, identity, and intimacy from a mental health and inclusivity lens. All language used complies with YouTube's Community Guidelines.

📌 This content supports shame-free, affirming conversations around sex, gender, and self-expression and is presented in a respectful and non-explicit format.

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