Stop Saying "Good Job" To Your Kids (Say This Instead)
Автор: Confident Kids Guide
Загружено: 2025-12-26
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Most parents say "good job" because they want their children to feel capable and encouraged. However, psychological research suggests this common phrase might actually be training kids to rely on external validation rather than building true self-trust.
In this video, we explore the science of praise, specifically the work of Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck on growth mindset vs. fixed mindset. We break down why general praise creates a "fixed" belief system that causes children to avoid challenges and fear failure. More importantly, we provide four evidence-based alternatives—Process Praise, Observation, Open Questions, and Impact Awareness—that help children develop internal validation and genuine resilience.
Timestamps:
0:00 - The uncomfortable truth about "good job"
2:45 - Internal vs external validation
5:10 - Carol Dweck's groundbreaking research
9:30 - Four better things to say instead
15:20 - Why patterns matter more than perfection
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