Simple Trick To Stop Needy & Clingy Behavior

“How to Stop Being Needy & Clingy”

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In this video, Clayton is going to talk about neediness, how to stop being insecure, how to stop being clingy in your relationships, and how to start getting this part of your life under control.

Not Expressing Need Creates Neediness [01:25]

It is a way of thinking that keeps us locked in the state of need which creates neediness in a relationship.

If you want to escape this neediness view, if you want to no longer be needy or clingy in a relationship, you must express the need because expressing the need allows that feeling to complete itself.

STEPS TO EXPRESSING NEED:

#1: By talking about your need, you're beginning to re-frame that you are being able to ask for what you want in a relationship, whether it's reassurance, whether it is more presence, whether it is a deeper listening or just more security, that gives your partner a gift

＜ It allows you to show up as somebody that they now have a roadmap for of like how to love and how perhaps make happy.

＜ It creates this clarity where you both can figure out where you stand with each other – this what allows the intimacy to deepen.

#2: If you’re following with a request of what it is that you would like.

＜ A lot of this also has to do with the way in which you approach, the tone, body language and just the intention that you have. And communicating this is also important.

＜ It’s about trusting that maybe the other person, the reason that you're not feeling like you're getting what you want out of the relationship or the interaction is not because of something that's wrong with you or something that they're doing on purpose to try to deny you, it's rather they might just be ignorant.

＜ He has the opportunity or she has the opportunity to be able to step up and meet these needs here.

PUTTING PRESSURE ON SOMEBODY:

The difference between in terms of communication, what makes it pressure and a burden versus what makes it clean communication that allows the other person the freedom to fulfill on it and maybe feel good about it.

＜ When you are expressing your need, are you asking the person to fulfill it from them being in a place of not being okay? Are you making them not okay because you have a need?

HOW DO YOU KEEP THE COMMUNICATION CLEAN?

＜ By ensuring that they are okay, that you are making them okay with your communication which means you're not making assumptions about their intention.

CAVEAT:

If you still think that it's pressure and you think that he's not wanting to do these things even if you're communicating them clearly, then it might be important to reassess whether you are with someone that you are compatible with.

It's better to know the truth and get more connected to the truth because then you can have a conversation around it rather than operating under all of these assumptions and hoping that somehow it figures itself out on its own.

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