How To Get Your Ex Back In A Long Distance Relationship

http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ -- Getting Your Ex Back In A Long Distance Relationship

If you're trying to repair a long distance relationship, then this video is for you, because I'm going to talk about how to win back your ex when he or she lives hundreds or even thousands of miles away.

OK, now, let's talk about how to get your long-distance ex back....

The first thing you need to understand is that being hundreds of miles away from your ex complicates things quite a bit compared to a 'normal' situation. Yes, you can still get him or her back, and I've worked with hundreds of clients in long-distance relationships that have successfully won back their ex.... but it's usually easier if you live in the same city, so keep in mind that, depending on the details of your specific situation, you may have a difficult road ahead.

When it's time to start talking to your ex again, I recommend beginning with a really casual, fun, and brief message (either text message, Facebook message, Skype message, even an email). In my Ex Factor Guide program, I've included a ton of examples of messages you can send to your ex to get him or her thinking about.... so if you're struggling to think of what to write your long-distance ex, you might find the program helpful... you can sign up at my website, BreakupBrad.com.

Whatever you decide to say in your first message, keep it really short (no more than a few sentences) and make sure it's fun, upbeat, and interesting.... try to be funny, reference and inside joke, or something like that. Don't try to bring up anything serious, don't start any drama, and absolutely DO NOT say pointless and uninteresting things like "hey how are you" or "how's life these days".... you want to get your ex to remember how much fun life was when you were there to talk to them every day, and hopefully get a reply. That's all you want from this first communication with your ex after the period of no contact.

You'll probably need to do this a few times over the course of a month or so, making sure that you keep the conversations funny and interesting. Depending on how your ex responds and how things go from there, it will hopefully eventually lead to some curiosity and interest on your ex's part, and help him or her let go of some negative memories and forget the reasons they decided to break up with you.

When you've done all this, the time will eventually come to either meet your ex in person, or arrange a Skype call or Facetime meeting online with them. In-person is way better, but you should only EVER visit your ex's hometown if you have a legitimate excuse for being there... if your ex lives on the other side of the world and you don't know anyone else in the area, then it will be way too obvious that you're just trying to get back together. That's not what you want, so it's always best to think of a legitimate excuse for being "in the area", which will allow you to invite your ex out for coffee to "catch up" while you're in town. If you have to use Skype or an online web chat instead, then the same principles apply, but it's going to be a lot more difficult.

Keep your meet short and sweet. Make sure you're friendly, upbeat, and positive about your life. Nobody wants to get back together with a person who is depressed or unhappy, so make sure that you have a good job and things are looking up (at least portray this to them). Ask how their life is going, but make it seem like there is nothing wrong in your life at the moment.

You also need to add a little bit of a sexual element to it. No, don't try and have sex with your ex... if the opportunity presents itself, then you may want to do so as physical romance is important, but it's unlikely you're at that point yet. However, you'll want to flirt a lot with your ex. Hold eye contact for a little bit longer. Touch them a lot in a playful, flirtatious way. Talk about sexy things and maybe drop a 'naughty' inside joke or innuendo. If they're being receptive to this, then really push it, but make it seem fun and do it almost in a joking way.

That's it for now.... I know there are many things I wasn't able to cover in this video, so please get in touch with me to chat further. You can also subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos like this one. Please also consider clicking the like button if you found this video helpful, I really appreciate it.

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