Why Good Couples Keep Missing Each Other (It’s Not What You Think)

Good couples don’t usually miss each other because they don’t care.
They miss each other because they’re operating from unspoken expectations, inherited patterns, and unexamined values.

Every marriage has a culture.
Not a mission statement—but a culture.

Culture is what’s normal in your marriage:
How conflict is handled, how connection is protected, what boundaries exist, and what your children experience at home.

In this video, we talk about:

Why good couples feel emotionally disconnected even when love is present
How personal and marriage values shape marital culture
The difference between avoidance and repair in conflict
Why being busy isn’t the same as being bonded
How boundaries, connection, and repair create predictability and safety
What your children are learning from what’s “normal” in your home

Many couples have never named their marriage values or intentionally built their marriage culture. When culture is left undefined, frustration and misunderstanding quietly grow.

This conversation is not about blame.
It’s about clarity, structure, and building on purpose.

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If you want help identifying your personal and marriage values, I’ve linked a step-by-step values video in the description to support your next step.

This video is for couples who want a healthier marriage, clearer communication, and a more connected relationship—without turning marriage into a battleground.






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