Build YOURSELF up… not a MAN

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Don’t be a Barbara the builder ! It’s not our job. Most of us have done this with at least one man and how did that work out? Usually left us resentful and depleted and feeling used and hating ourselves for being so foolish to give and not receive in return. We are not their moms.we are not their mentors, their teachers , their nurses or anything that requires martyrdom. Bc we hold them back, we set them up to exploit that next woman and we sometimes lose our lives or seriously derail them in the process of enabling these golddiger hobosexual dusties.


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