Traits A Dismissive Avoidant is Most Attracted to When Dating

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Ever wondered what Dismissive Avoidants are drawn to, even when they don’t show it? Beneath their calm, independent exterior lies a powerful subconscious pull toward people who express the traits they’ve lost touch with in themselves.

In this video, Thais Gibson reveals the specific personality traits that deeply attract Dismissive Avoidants in dating, and how these very qualities can later create tension if left unbalanced. You’ll learn how attraction is rooted in “trait variety,” why opposites spark chemistry, and how to build healthier, more secure connections through self-integration.

You’ll learn:
✅ The three subconscious factors that drive attraction for Dismissive Avoidants
✅ Why they’re drawn to emotional warmth, supportiveness, and selflessness
✅ How unmet childhood needs influence romantic chemistry
✅ Why the traits that attract them can later trigger overwhelm or withdrawal
✅ How “trait integration” helps create long-term emotional harmony and secure love

Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – What Are Dismissive Avoidants Feeling?
00:49 – Expression of Repressed Traits is a Subconscious Driver of Attraction 
02:58 – We Tend to Be Attracted to What is Familiar/Who Meet Our Unmet Needs
03:30 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Are Attracted to People Who Are Really Supportive
04:50 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Are Attracted to People Who Are Warm and Caring
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06:12 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Are Attracted to People Who Are Selfless
06:54 – If We Don't Have a Healthy Trait Integration, It Will Turn Into Frustration 
09:11 – We Must Learn to Embody These Traits Ourselves

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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Understanding what truly attracts a Dismissive Avoidant — and how it changes over time — helps you build awareness, balance your emotional needs, and create relationships that last.