I'm 16, And My Mom Is Trying To Force Me Into Marriage With A Random 40 Year Old Man I've Never Met

I'm 16, And My Mom Is Trying To Force Me Into Marriage With A Random 40 Year Old Man I've Never Met

I was studying for my math test and listening to music while I studied. My mom was on the phone talking to a relative in Pakistan about a wedding and I took my earbuds out, and I started eavesdropping. I wanted to know what was going on and my mom said "I don't know what ‘wiiltedwallflower’ should wear to her wedding." WHAT THE hell ! After she ended the call she told me and my step-sister that we were going to Pakistan to "visit relatives."
I faked interest and pretended to be excited, so she wouldn't get suspicious, but I am damn shocked and I didn't know what to do. I went on travel.gc and I also googled a list of Canadian/ French consulates and embassies in Pakistan. I’m afraid my mom or my relatives will take away my passport and never let me return to Canada ! Then I’ll be trapped in that shithole country with some stranger who will probably abuse me daily. My mom has talked about marrying me off to a guy because my grades are bad and because I don’t “behave.”
I haven’t been to Pakistan since I was 6 and I would never, ever go back. I am ex muslim and I hate all of my mom’s relatives in Pakistan. I remember when I failed a chemistry test and my mom said “Your cousin got grades like yours and that’s why she was married off.” Another time before I wrote my final exams, she said “I’ll find you a doctor husband because girls don’t work.” I am so scared and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to leave Canada ! I know that we have to go to Paris, France first and I am going to make a run for it when we land, I have dual citizenship with France and my biological father lives in Paris. I haven’t even called my dad and told him what was going on because I’m going to break down in tears and my snitchy step-sister will tell my mom and step-dad on me. On tv and youtube I have seen so many documentaries about desi girls in forced marriages, I never knew that I was going to be one of those girls. Should I call the police before I leave ? or should I ask to go to the bathroom and run away ?
UPDATE: Thank you so much for the advice ! I am going to make another post about my plan and escape to France.
RELEVANT COMMENT
someone asked, Where in Canada are you located?
Edit: if you are anywhere in Ontario (or willing to travel) I can give you a safe place to stay. I even drive. I'm not sure when your departure date is but do not go. Pack as if you're happy you're traveling and run away. When you're far away from your mother and sister then you call your father. See what he says. If there is any ANY indication he is on your mom's side DO NOT GO. If he is willing to take you in, you should go see him alone. Do not tell your mom of your travel plans.
Original poster replied, I am not in Ontario. I have called my father, my mom and step sister don't speak French so they didn't understand. My dad is a white French man and he is not on my mom's side !
Update 1 (Next day)
First of all, I can't thank you all enough for this advice and support, I'd send you all muffin baskets if I could. It's the day after I found out about this forced marriage, it wasn't arranged because I haven't given my consent and there's no way in hell I want to marry some old damn at 16. A lot has happened in the past 24 hours, I have called my dad, boyfriend, family members and trusted friends. My best friend has given me a pocket GPS, and she said she will track my location and notify the police if I end up in Pakistan, but I have notified authorities. My dad was furious when I told him that my mom arranged a marriage for me. My boyfriend's parents said they would help me if my mom drained my bank account, or if I was taken to Pakistan, they would go there and take me out of Pakistan.
I have printed off copies of my IDs and recent pictures, I have given them to my friends and family. I also told my principal. I started taking cash out of my bank account so my mom can't drain it. But I don't want it to look suspicious, so I'm going to take it out in medium amounts and then hide the money in my safe. My dad said he would help me open a bank account in France, but I'm sure you have to be over 18. I hid my French passport and other IDs in my safe. Another thing I've done is that I am packing my belongings like my clothes, albums, school transcripts, electronics, books etc in boxes and shipping them to my dad's address. I don't know what I'll do with the cash ! I have under $10,000 so I won't face a fine when at customs, but I'll have to declare it.

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