Stop Being Sick and Tired: How to Reclaim Your Identity in Christ

Are you feeling stuck in a "rinse and repeat" cycle? In this episode of Not in Church, we dive deep into the struggle for identity and purpose. We explore why so many people—especially men—are feeling burnt out, unfulfilled, and disconnected from their families.

We discuss:
Finding your true identity in Jesus Christ, rather than earthly success.
How spiritual health directly impacts your marriage and intimacy.
Overcoming laziness and taking action to provide for your family both physically and spiritually.
The importance of the Sabbath and finding rest in the middle of the hustle.

If you’re ready to stop being "sick and tired of being sick and tired," this message is for you. Learn how to flip the script on your current situation and start 2026 with a renewed sense of purpose and divine direction.

Scripture Reference: "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." — Matthew 11:28


00:00 – Intro: You are made for a purpose.
01:25 – The struggle with identity and purpose in modern culture.
02:30 – Spiritual Warfare: How the enemy attacks marriages.
04:08 – Finding rest in a digital age (Reflections on Genesis 1:1).
06:20 – Encouragement for men: The weight of providing for a family.
07:45 – Financial stress and "borrowing from the future."
09:30 – How spiritual leadership fixes intimacy in marriage.
11:50 – Respect vs. Results: What husbands and wives need most.
14:15 – Hard Truth: Overcoming laziness and the "spirit of de-commitment."
17:05 – Finding rest in the hustle: Deep dive into Matthew 11:28.
19:40 – Final Challenge: Accept the invitation to live a life of purpose.