Why Jealousy Feels Like Love at First — And Becomes the Problem Later

In the beginning of a relationship, jealousy often feels cute.
It feels like care. It feels like love.

But with time, the same jealousy can start feeling uncomfortable… even suffocating.

In this video, I explain why that emotional shift happens — not by blaming anyone, but by understanding how our mind, emotions, and nervous system evolve with time.

This video is for:
• people who feel confused about why their relationship dynamics changed
• teenagers who want to understand emotions better
• adults who want clarity instead of guilt or blame

This is not about labelling anyone as toxic.
This is about emotional growth, insecurity, and mismatched maturity — explained simply.

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⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 — When jealousy feels cute in the beginning
00:32 — Why attention feels like love early on
01:20 — How our brain processes emotions in early relationships
02:10 — Why jealousy feels validating at first
02:55 — What changes as we grow emotionally
03:45 — Why the same jealousy starts feeling suffocating
04:35 — Jealousy as a reaction to insecurity (not bad intent)
05:25 — Why the other partner starts feeling trapped
06:10 — Mismatched emotional growth in relationships
06:40 — Final takeaway: love, trust, and emotional updates