Eps. 208...Stay

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In this episode, Stay, we unpack commitment issues—what they really look like, where they come from, and why some people struggle to fully choose their partner. Is fear of commitment rooted in past heartbreak, childhood patterns, or unresolved trauma? Or can it be triggered by what’s happening in the present relationship—lack of safety, unmet needs, or behavior that causes doubt?

We explore the difference between healthy hesitation and avoidance, how commitment issues show up emotionally and behaviorally, and when “second-guessing forever” is a signal to heal versus a sign to walk away. This conversation invites honest reflection for those who want love but fear staying, and for partners wondering if they’re being patient—or settling.

Because sometimes the question isn’t can you stay… it’s why you’re unsure.

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