Why Avoidants PULL AWAY When They Fall in Love: The Neuroscience of Fear

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Welcome to The Healing Mirror, where emotional truth meets clarity, and the pain you’ve been avoiding finally becomes your power.
Did the person you love vanish right after a moment of deep connection? You are not imagining the chemistry. This video reveals the brutal truth: the Avoidant runs not because they don't care, but because they care *too much*. We dive deep into the neuroscience of fear, "Deactivation Strategies," and the "Vulnerability Hangover" to explain why intimacy feels like a threat to them. Stop blaming yourself, understand the biology behind their silence, and learn how to finally reclaim your power.

⏳ TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 | The Great Misunderstanding: Why Silence Doesn’t Mean Indifference
03:42 | The Neuroscience of Danger: The "Amygdala Hijack" Explained
07:15 | The "Vulnerability Hangover": Why They Run After Intimacy
11:08 | Deactivation Strategies: Nitpicking, The Phantom Ex & Intellectualization
15:35 | The Core Wound: Why Receiving Love Feels Like a Burden
19:12 | The "Safe Distance" Paradox: Why They Watch Your Stories but Don’t Reply
22:50 | The Sabotage Cycle: Rejecting You Before You Reject Them
26:28 | The Internal War: Are They Really as Unbothered as They Look?
30:10 | Conclusion: Radical Acceptance & Reclaiming Your Power

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Thank you so much for spending your time with me today 💛
I hope this video gave you clarity, strength, and maybe even a little peace.

👉 If this resonated with you, I’d love for you to keep going. Watch the next video at the link below—it goes even deeper into healing, boundaries, and creating the kind of love you truly deserve:
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I’m so grateful you’re here. Remember—you are not alone on this journey. Keep choosing yourself, one step at a time. 🌿✨