The Fear That Nearly Kept Me From Moving Abroad

Moving abroad after 40 brings excitement — but it also brings fears we don’t always say out loud.

In this video, I’m talking honestly about the quiet money and life fears many women carry when they choose to live abroad. Especially for those who didn’t plan to leave work early, were impacted by layoffs or restructuring, or are navigating income changes later in life.

We talk about
• The fear of running out of money
• Being forced out of work earlier than expected
• Guilt around spending money on yourself
• Supporting family while trying to build your own stability
• Feeling uneasy doing well when others are struggling
• Waiting for the “perfect time” that never comes
• Choosing countries based only on cost instead of sustainability

These fears aren’t weakness.
They’re awareness.

If you’re moving abroad or considering it after 40, this conversation is here to remind you that fear doesn’t mean you’re unprepared — it means you’re thoughtful.

You’re not late.
You’re recalibrating.


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