Limerent? The Shadow Reason Behind Limerence & Why You Can't Let Go

If you’ve ever wondered why you "love" so deeply, why you can’t let go, or why your mind fixates on someone who isn’t actually in your life? — this video will change the way you understand limerence forever.

Limerence isn’t obsession. It’s a shadow.
A nervous system pattern.
An inner child wound.
A BaZi elemental imbalance.
A deep emotional echo from a time you weren’t chosen, seen, or secured.

In this episode, I break down the shadow behind limerence — how your intuitive gifts, your nervous system, and your energetic blueprint (Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, Water) create the emotional patterns you think are “chemistry” or “meant to be.”

Inside this video, you’ll learn:
✨ What limerence actually is (not obsession, but emotional displacement)
✨ Why intuitive, intelligent women experience limerence deeply
✨ How the limerent mind gets stuck in a nervous system loop
✨ The inner child wound beneath fantasy, longing, and fixation
✨ The BaZi element that activates first in your limerence cycle
✨ Fire → fantasy, Water → fear, Earth → rumination, Wood → idealism, Metal → collapse
✨ The shadow self you unknowingly project onto unavailable people
✨ How limerence interrupts intuition — and how to rebuild it

By the end, you’ll understand:
Limerence = unresolved shadow + dysregulated nervous system + energetic imbalance.

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