POV: You did everything RIGHT & everything is going all WRONG...

This one’s for every Black woman who followed the rules, made the right moves, loved hard, healed harder — and still ended up questioning, “Why isn’t it working?”

In tonight’s live, we’re unpacking the real horror of doing everything ‘right’ in a world that still punishes you for existing out loud. From career burnout to dating double standards, from “soft life” expectations to the pressure of being “strong,” we’re telling the truth — raw, unfiltered, and maybe a little spooky.

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0:00 start
0:15 Today crazy turn of events
2:55 intro
3:35 My fears realized
4:16 a run down of all the “romantic” movies
8:05 Real Life scenarios that could ruin your life
8:15 brief plug from:
9:18 High Achievement / High Functioning
9:53 lack of experience of dating leads to heartbreak
10:24 the more you achieve, the less options you have for dating
10:53 if you choose someone who makes less money…
12:40 everyone tells you to take what you can get
13:36 we live in a society that *literally doesn’t want us to have ANYTHING
14:05 you’re the caretaker, but no one can take care of you…
15:08 getting a terminal illness & your so is cheating / draining you
16:36 plain Jane & mediocrity vs black woman excellence
17:49 the more you achieve, the less time for family
18:24 the caregiver is resented and taken for granted
19:50 prioritizing husband vs child
20:48 no personal interests of
21:05 Resenting children
22:03 brief for colored girls
22:24 things happen so quickly
22:40 male centered
23:18 men can be fickle and manipulative
24:00 how men respond to stimuli
25:17 never truly finding happiness in relationships
25:58 viewing other women as competitors is a disadvantage
26:53 men vs women decision making skills & habits
28:19 can women have it all????
28:48 what if you’re a REAL boss babe and….
30:00 Beyoncé and Jay Z
31:04 Rihanna and Asap Rocky
32:03 Mariah Carey and Nickerson Csnnon
33:35 Cardi B and Offset
33:55 Lady Gaga: your career will never wake up and tell you it doesn’t love you anymore
34:25 you can’t win for losing
35:21 you could be a power couple
36:37 you get out of poverty, just to be broke as an adult no matter how much you make
38:43 she had it ALL…until…
39:51 how to get the happily ever after
41:35 it might be hard to prioritize yourself because you genuinely care but…DO IT ANY WAY
42:00 you have to be mean & uncompromising

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