Wives spoke honestly in the comments...and it s MOVING!

I stumbled on a Thread and reading through the comments was refreshing and got me thinking about all the things that I have experienced as a wife that have humbled, challenged and helped me grow ultimately.

This isn't advice but rather a reflection on what has helped me in this journey as a wife and the things I related to from other wives experiences. It was great to see all the wives in the comments just sharing wisdom humbly and helping other women feel seen and be encouraged in their marriages.

Marriage was designed to be challenged and refining people. I think unlearning the things I picked up before marriage was only a matter of time and I am more than grateful for the process I've been though.

I hope that in watching this video it's just a reminder that you're not the only one and that God has a plan for you in your life and in this role.


📚 Chapters
00:00 – Intro
01:34 – Reading the comments begin
02:29 – Softer and kinder words
04:58 -- "I have a problem"
07:43- Truth v. Lies
10:42 -- "Don't got to be angry" is garbage
14:21 -- Communication is key (I'm sure you've heard that before)
15:38 -- The BEST comment IMO
20:11 -- Hold your thoughts
23:20 -- Final thoughts
27:12 -- Outro Lasagna Soup beginnings
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