Waking up from the seduction of ‘the dream’

Meeting someone new can inspire a ‘dream’ of your future. But are your dreams in alignment with reality? Here’s how to properly evaluate a potential partner: #thedream #futurizing #partnerselection #newrelationshhips

Robert writes, “Hi Susan! I love your videos so much!. You talk a lot about "The Dream". When I have been on a small handful of dates with someone new, I often find myself falling into "The Dream" ... creating this idealised version of him in my head and imagining our future together when I barely know him (and barely know if I truly like him). How do I not fall into "The Dream" too soon?”

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Susan Winter is a leading relationship expert and love coach who has helped over 5,000 people find, and keep, love. She’s a bestselling author (Older Women/Younger Men, Allowing Magnificence, and Breakup Triage) specializing in evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. Susan writes, speaks and coaches on dating issues, relationship challenges, and personal empowerment.

Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan’s 850+ top tier media credits include:THE OPRAH SHOW, THE NEW YORK TIMES, THE TODAY SHOW, GOOD MORNING AMERICA, ABC EVENING NEWS, THE LIST SHOW, BBC NEWS, ITV NEWS, TALKTV LONDON, CNN HEADLINE NEWS, COSMOPOLITAN MAGAZINE, HARPERS BAZAAR, MEN'S HEALTH, FORTUNE, FORBES, BUSINESS INSIDER, PEOPLE MAGAZINE, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, MUMBAI MIRROR, IRISH TIMES, THE TIMES OF INDIA, and the THE IRISH EXAMINER. In radio, Susan is a frequent guest on NPR, ABC, BBC, and CBS NEWS RADIO. Public speaking includes keynotes at the WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM, THE INTERNATIONAL MENTAL HEALTH FESTIVAL, and the CORE CLUB NYC. Her Podcast, 'The Susan Winter Show,' can be heard on Spotify, Apple Music, and Amazon Prime. www.susanwinter.net