CloseFriends with Romy of Deathbyromy

Self-Exploration, Shibari, and Overcoming Adversity with Romy Flores

In this episode of CloseFriends, Whitney is joined by Romy Flores, the creative force behind Deathbyromy. Throughout our conversation, we explore a wide range of topics, from self-exploration and sexuality to overcoming adversity and the transformative power of Shibari.

Self-Exploration and Movement:
We delve into the significance of movement forms like pole dancing and hot yoga in fostering self-esteem, expression, and positive body image. Romy shares her personal journey with these practices and how they have influenced her sense of self.

Shibari: Trust, Consent, and Artistic Expression:
Introducing Shibari as an artistic form of rope bondage, we discuss its profound aspects of trust, consent, and artistic expression. Romy elaborates on how Shibari serves as a medium for exploring themes of control, surrender, and vulnerability in a safe and consensual environment, providing unique insights into communication, trust, and emotional release.

Middle School and Bullying:
Romy bravely shares her experiences with bullying during middle school and its lasting impact on her mental health. We examine the long-term effects of bullying, including self-esteem issues and social anxiety, and explore strategies for overcoming these challenges. Emphasizing the importance of support systems, we discuss how understanding the motivations behind bullying behavior can aid in the healing process.

Getting Diagnosed with Autism in Early Adulthood:
Transitioning to a deeply personal topic, Romy discusses her journey to receiving an autism diagnosis in early adulthood. We explore the challenges and emotions associated with this process and the profound impact of a late diagnosis on personal life, relationships, and self-understanding. Romy reflects on how getting diagnosed can be a powerful catalyst for shifting perspectives and embracing one's authentic self.

Through Romy's candid insights and experiences, this episode offers a thought-provoking exploration of self-discovery, resilience, and the transformative potential of embracing one's true identity.