Should I Make Love With My Spouse During Marriage Difficulty?

If your spouse is in an affair, and you’re wondering, “Should I make love with my spouse if they’re in an affair?” We are here to help. To start, Dr. Joe Beam earned his PhD from the University of Sydney in Australia, studying the causes and correlations between marital satisfaction and sexual satisfaction. Specifically, he specializes in situations where a marriage is having difficulty/in crisis.

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One of the common questions Dr. Joe Beam receives is:
“My spouse is having an affair. He or she is involved with some other person. And yet, occasionally my spouse wants to come home. Be here with me. Things begin to get a little bit romantic, not necessarily a lot romantic because I can tell he, or she is still involved with the other person, but we wound up in bed with each other and we made love to each other. And I'm wondering because of the fact that my spouse is still continuing in an affair with the other person, should I do that? Should I make love to my spouse? Who's involved with another human being, (whether or not that affair is sexual or just emotional.) Should I be having sex with him or her?”

In today’s video, with Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes, you’ll discover some things to consider if you’re wondering if you should have sex while your spouse is in an affair. Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Holmes will discuss the viewpoint from the angles of both spouses and provide you with a deeper understanding of this situation.

Remember, there’s not a simple “do this” answer, but if you think about these things, you will be better able to make the BEST choice for you and your situation. The key question is this: “What are you trying to accomplish?”


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