The Hedonic Threadmill: Why You've Got Everything Yet Feel Like Nothing

Do you ever feel like you're not good enough, constantly seeking approval, status, or something more, even if you don't know what it is? This feeling of deficiency is common, but what if the reality is wildly different? This video explores the paradoxical idea that for many of us, living in a state of abundance can actually feel terrifying and uncomfortable.

We delve into personal experiences of feeling overwhelmed by endless tasks (a hidden form of abundance) and how this triggers anxieties about our worth, capacity, and value. We examine how this "deficiency mindset" is trained by our consumer culture, advertising, and the competitive "rat race," constantly focusing us on lack, potential loss, and the fear of not having enough. Discover the concept of the hedonic treadmill – why getting more rarely leads to lasting happiness – and question the societal narrative that scarcity is necessary.

What if we already live in an age of abundance, surrounded by resources, opportunities, and connections, but our feelings haven't caught up? This video proposes a fundamental shift:

From seeking approval - craving connection

From needing to be unique - listening to your inner voice

From distraction - genuine play & fun

From needing control - being driven by purpose

From perfectionism - surrendering to creativity

From superficiality - developing your own aesthetic & sense of awe

From constant busyness - full engagement in the present

From status & arrogance - lifelong learning & a beginner's mind

The ultimate question isn't just about recognizing material abundance, but about aligning our inner feeling state with this reality. How do we train our bodies and minds to feel safe, content, and truly abundant, right here, right now? Join the discussion on moving from a feeling of lack to embracing the richness already present in our lives.

Drawing on insights from psychology (Adler, Maslow, Jung) and Eastern philosophy, we explore practical ways to cultivate this inner shift towards self-realization and higher consciousness.

Learn more about practical self-realization in my upcoming book, "The Age of Self Realization."