253 Beyond Power Struggles with Richard Selznick

Do you ever feel like you're stuck in the same battle over and over again with your child? In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. Richard Selznick — psychologist, author, and expert in shutdown learners — to unpack what's really going on beneath the surface of power struggles with neurodivergent kids.

We talk about:
✔️ Why your child might be “unmotivated” or shutting down — and what’s often missed
✔️ The truth about “fixing” our kids (hint: they’re not broken!)
✔️ Giving kids meaningful choice to reduce meltdowns and foster cooperation
✔️ Simple, effective language to defuse tough moments and reset without shame
✔️ How to shift your mindset for more peace, less conflict, and better connection

Dr. Selznick offers practical insights you can use today, all grounded in compassion and clarity. Whether you're navigating meltdowns, school avoidance, or homework resistance, this episode is a powerful reminder that you're not alone, and there is a path forward.

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🔗 Show notes and resources: https://parentingadhdandautism.com/253

📚 Learn more about Dr. Selznick and his books at: https://shutdownlearner.com

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