You’re Not Stuck, You’re Misaligned! | The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything

Feeling stuck doesn’t mean you’re broken.
It usually means something in your life is misaligned, and your spirit is trying to get your attention.

If you’ve been telling yourself “this is my year,” but you still feel tired, disconnected, or like you’re abandoning parts of yourself just to survive… this conversation is for you.

Hi! I’m Patricia, a single mom of two who has been rebuilding her life since losing her mom at 18 and discovering I was pregnant soon after. For years, I hustled through college, homelessness, and a loveless marriage because I thought stability came from the outside. I eventually learned that you can want the right things and still choose them from an unhealed place. By 2014 I was divorced, still working in corporate America and raising teenagers, but I finally decided to choose myself.

In this first episode, I’m sharing the mindset shift that changed everything for me, not motivation, not positive vibes, but the kind of mindset that helps you stop negotiating with your calling and start building a life that actually feels like yours.

CHAPTERS & TIMESTAMPS
0:00 You’re Not Stuck — You’re Misaligned
1:11 Meet Patty the Connector | The Problem Solver Queen
1:33 My Story: Loss, Survival, and Choosing Myself
3:32 What Mindset Really Is (And Why Motivation Isn’t Enough)
5:41 Why Your Rise Gives Others Permission to Rise
6:19 Step 1: Sit With the Truth of Where You Are
8:52 One Honest Decision That Changes Everything

In this episode, I talk about:

• Why feeling stuck is usually about misalignment, not discipline
• What mindset really is (and why motivation isn’t enough)
• How grief, survival, and responsibility can bury your real self
• Why small, honest decisions create real life change
• How to sit with the truth of where you are — without shame

What it means to choose yourself without burning everything down

This space is for women and men navigating reinvention, leadership, motherhood, healing, and growth, especially those of us who’ve had to be strong for a long time and are ready for clarity, peace, and progress.

I’m building this channel intentionally. This is my year — not just for healing, but for income, impact, and showing up fully in who I’m becoming. If you’re in a season where you’re ready to stop surviving and start building, you’re in the right place.

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