What do you do when the "honeymoon phase" fades and you're left with real conflict in your marriage? Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages, gets honest with Jim Daly about the early years of his marriage—how he went from thinking he married the wrong person to discovering the power of love as an attitude, not just a feeling.
In this powerful conversation, you'll hear raw stories, biblical wisdom, and practical tools that can transform your relationship—especially when the feelings fade and frustration sets in.
In this episode you'll hear:
🔹 Why the "tingles" wear off—and what to do next
🔹 What it really means to love someone when you don’t feel like it
🔹 The truth about emotional love tanks (and why they matter so much)
🔹 How selfishness vs. service can make or break a marriage
🔹 The 3 questions that saved Gary’s marriage
And much more. If you're in a hard place in your marriage or just want to grow deeper in love, this episode is for you. Real, practical, hopeful.
📖 Get your copy of "5 Love Languages" here: https://bit.ly/3S0V3av
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