If your marriage feels stuck, it might not be a love problem—it might be a habit problem. In this video, we break down 4 powerful, biblically-rooted habit strategies that can radically transform your marriage—starting this week.
💥 From identity-driven action to habit stacking, we’ll show you how small, intentional changes can lead to big breakthroughs in connection, communication, and intimacy.
👫 Whether your marriage feels distant or just needs a refresh, this episode will give you practical steps to build systems that actually work—without burnout.
🧠 You’ll learn:
Why identity matters more than outcomes
How to build systems, not just set goals
The power of habit stacking in everyday life
How to design your marriage habits to be obvious, easy, and satisfying
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⏰ Timecodes ⏰
00:00 – This Habit Can Change Everything
Why your marriage isn’t stuck—it’s your habits that need to change.
01:24 – It Starts with You, Not Them
Why becoming a better spouse begins with identity, not blame.
04:44 – 1. Identity Over Outcome
Stop waiting to feel different—declare who you are and let identity drive your marriage.
10:00 – Speak Life with Identity Statements
Practical, biblical declarations to reshape your marriage from the inside out.
17:15 – Let Offense Go: Build a Strong Heart
How being unoffendable strengthens your marriage and protects your peace.
23:08 – 2. Systems Over Goals
Why you don’t rise to the level of your goals—you fall to the level of your systems.
30:00 – Weekly Marriage Check-Ins
Simple rhythms that help you stay aligned, connected, and intentional.
32:00 – 3. Habit Stacking for Connection
How to turn everyday routines into powerful moments of intimacy.
34:24 – 4. Make It Obvious, Easy & Satisfying
Design your environment to make love natural, frequent, and fulfilling.
38:00 – Next Step: Building Your Sex Calendar
Watch our next video to build a fun and consistent rhythm for sexual connection.