Stop Talking Like a Child! Mastering the 3 Ego States of Transactional Analysis Theory
Автор: Kushilov Chowdhury
Загружено: 2025-12-12
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Have you ever left a conversation feeling misunderstood, frustrated, or like you were being treated like a child? The answer lies in Eric Berne's Transactional Analysis (TA) theory!
This video dives into Berne’s groundbreaking model, which asserts that every human interaction (or 'transaction') originates from one of three fundamental Ego States:
1. Parent: The state of guidance, instruction, and judgment (inherited from authority figures).
2. Adult: The state of rational, logical thought and objective data processing.
3. Child: The state of emotion, playfulness, creativity, and rebellion.
Mastering Transaction Types:
The success of any communication depends entirely on which Ego States are talking to each other. We break down the two main transaction types:
• Complementary (Parallel) Transactions: The expected response arrives from the matching ego state (e.g., Adult $\rightarrow$ Adult). Outcome: Smooth, effective communication.
• Crossed Transactions: The response comes from an unexpected ego state (e.g., You speak Adult $\rightarrow$ Adult, but they reply Child $\rightarrow$ Parent). Outcome: Misunderstanding, tension, and conflict.
Transform Your Interactions:
By recognizing your own and others' current ego state, you can strategically shift your communication to promote the ideal Adult-Adult exchange—the foundation of professional, respectful, and effective dialogue. Learn how to identify crossed transactions in real-time and steer the conversation back toward rationality.
Which Ego State do you find yourself defaulting to most often under stress? Share your insights below!
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