Letting Go of Expectations - How to Stop Hurting from “Should Have” – Buddhist Story of Freedom

“It shouldn’t have ended this way.”
“They should’ve understood.”
“I should be further along by now.”

We carry these quiet expectations every day—
and when reality doesn’t match them, we suffer.

But what if life isn’t the problem?
What if it’s our grip on how things “should have been”... that’s causing the pain?

In this gentle, meditative episode of Lotus Light Teachings, we walk through the emotional layers of expectation and explore how letting go doesn’t mean losing hope—
…it means finally making peace with what is.

✨ What you’ll experience in this video:

🪷 Why unmet expectations hurt more than reality itself
🪷 A touching Zen story about loving someone as they are—not as we imagined
🪷 The subtle way expectations shape our relationships and emotional pain
🪷 How mindfulness helps you soften into the moment
🪷 How to live from gratitude—not lack—and find wholeness here and now

This is Episode 5 in our healing series: Letting Go – The Gentle Art of Release.
Each chapter guides you back to yourself, through story, Buddhist wisdom, and poetic reflection.

🌿 If you’re learning to let go—of people, plans, or pressure—this space is for you.
Subscribe and walk with us. You don’t have to go fast. Just go gently.
0:00 – Opening: Why expectations quietly control us
1:22 – The pain of “should have”
4:15 – How we project onto others in relationships
7:40 – The freedom of surrendering control
11:00 – Mindfulness as a path to release
14:25 – Gratitude for what is: living from wholeness
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