20130623 Kim Hyun Joong ex girlfriend

20130623 Kim Hyun Jonng Soccer Kim Hyun Joong ex-girlfriend 2015

“Accidental” Pregnancies, Entrapment and Children as Weapons:How many men have been
suckered and emotionally extorted into relationships and marriages

with crazy, immature, high-conflict and/or personality disordered women who

“accidentally” got themselves pregnant?

How many men would have ended relationships without looking back if not for being forced

into fatherhood against their will and wishes?

How many men have stayed in an abusive relationship for the sake of their children, even

though they feel a little piece of themselves die inside everyday?

An “accidental” pregnancy is one of the oldest tricks in the book of desperate,

emotionally disturbed women.

Deliberately becoming pregnant without a man’s consent, against his explicit consent, as

a way to hold onto him or to extort a commitment and money from him is one of the the

most underhanded, contemptible forms of betrayal and theft there is.

Her body, her choice. Fine, but what about the genetic material a woman needs from a man

to even have that choice? Parenthood ought to require mutual respect and consideration; a

mutual choice. His sperm, his choice. Very often men have no choice about becoming

fathers.

Before certain women make the emotional argument, “If he didn’t want to be a father, he

shouldn’t have had sex!” let me say, grow up, get real and get some self-respect.

Women lie about being on birth control. Women claim their antibiotics rendered their

birth control pills ineffective. Women lie about their menstrual cycles. Women lie and

claim they’re infertile. They get ex-boyfriends drunk and lure them into bed. They

collect sperm from used condoms. They get pregnant by another man and lie about the

paternity. This is just wrong. It is wrong. It is wrong. It is wrong and it’s just a

glimpse of the hell that is sure to follow.

Self-respecting, psychologically healthy women do NOT force men into fatherhood. Self-

respecting, psychologically healthy women want to be loved for themselves, not because

they arm twisted a man into “doing the right thing.”

A woman who deliberately gets pregnant against a man’s wishes and/or when she senses he’s

about to end the relationship is a self-centered, un-empathic, duplicitous, manipulator

of the highest order. Do not be fooled by her lies that it was an accident.

Accidental pregnancies are easily remedied. A woman who honestly becomes accidentally

pregnant is open to exploring options such as adoption or abortion. If it’s a healthy

relationship that was leading to marriage, then the pregnancy becomes a pleasant

surprise.
A woman who doesn’t consider a man’s feelings and wishes about having his baby is NOT a

woman he should bind himself to legally in marriage. These women are so twisted they lie

to themselves and convince themselves that they’re doing this out of “love.” This is

bullsh*t.

A woman who becomes pregnant to trap you is telling you loud and clear: “I don’t care

what you want. I don’t care about you. I don’t care about your feelings. I want what I

want and the consequences be damned. You will do what I want whether you want to or not.

This is all about me and it will always be about me.” This is not love; it is the

opposite of love.

In healthy relationships between healthy adults, children are a living symbol of their

union and love.

Stealing a baby from a man to force a relationship or to extort money from him has

nothing to do with love. It has nothing to do with wanting to raise and nurture a child

into a healthy, productive adult.

A child conceived in this way is not his/her own little person; the child is a means to

an end. The child is conceived for the sole purpose of tying the father to the mother

against his will. The child is a weapon. The child is created to control and hurt the

father. Women who view children as objects and weapons are highly likely to be parental

alienators.

These women are not good parent material. Being a parent requires selflessness at times.

Tricking a man into fatherhood is a supremely selfish act. A woman who does this

demonstrates, before the child is even born, that she is incapable of acting in “the best

interests of the child.” How is it in any child’s best interest to be born into a family

in which the father was forced into parenthood with a woman he neither loves nor wants to

be with?


Dr Tara J. Palmatier