7 signs you're loving from fear, not love (+ the REAL definition of love)

This is the definition of love that completely transformed my relationships — and honestly, my entire life.

For so long, I thought I was loving people the right way… but really, I was loving from fear. Fear of being abandoned, not enough, losing connection, or being replaced.

When I learned the true difference between love and fear, everything changed. My relationships became softer, freer, and rooted in peace — not control.

In this video, I’m sharing what I learned from The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz, and how these truths have completely reshaped how I show up in love — with others, and with myself.

Whether you’re healing from a toxic relationship, rebuilding trust with yourself, or learning what healthy love actually feels like… this is for you. 💫

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00:00 – Intro
01:07 – Characteristic #1: Love has no obligations
03:02 – Characteristic #2: Love has no expectations
04:40 – Characteristic #3: Love is respectful, not pitying
06:41 – Characteristic #4: Love is responsible & accountable
08:06 – Characteristic #5: Love is kind
10:25 – Characteristic #6: Love is generous
12:10 – Characteristic #7: Love is unconditional
13:16 – Closing reflections

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