Dr Myles Munroe Reveals the REAL Line Between SELF-CARE & SELFISHNESS (Motive Test!)

Dr Myles Munroe Reveals the REAL Line Between SELF-CARE & SELFISHNESS (Motive Test!)


Are your boundaries protecting your assignment… or just protecting your feelings? In this powerful kingdom teaching, Dr Myles Munroe exposes a dangerous confusion quietly destroying marriages, draining leaders, exhausting believers, and delaying destiny: many people don’t know the difference between godly self-care and selfish self-care.
This message confronts the two extremes that ruin lives:


Saying YES to everything until you burn out and die empty.


Saying NO to everything until you withdraw, shrink, and live empty.


Dr Myles Munroe makes it plain: the line isn’t the activity — it’s the motive. The world’s gospel says “protect your peace at all costs,” but the kingdom demands purpose above pleasure. Jesus loved deeply, served faithfully, and still set clear boundaries—not to reject people, but to obey the Father and protect divine priority.
You’ll learn the kingdom definition of self-care: not “whatever makes me feel good,” but whatever keeps me fit for purpose. This teaching will help you stop confusing avoidance with healing, pride with peace, and comfort with calling. You’ll also discover why boundaries are not unspiritual — they are Christlike, because even Jesus withdrew to pray, resisted manipulation, and refused to be led by human pressure.
Inside this message, Dr Myles Munroe gives:
✅ A clear contrast between selfish boundaries and godly boundaries
✅ Diagnostic questions to expose your true motive (obedience or hiding, purpose or ego, fruit or bitterness)
✅ Practical steps to set boundaries with clarity, kindness, and consistency—without guilt and without pride
✅ Biblical examples (Jesus, Nehemiah, Daniel, Joseph, David, Moses) showing how purpose is protected through discipline
If you’re tired of being “available to everyone but valuable to no one,” or if you’ve been hurt and started building walls you call “peace,” this word will realign your heart. Your destiny is too important to be wasted on emotional confusion. Learn to say NO like Jesus, rest like a steward, love with wisdom, and live focused on the reason you were born.
👉 Watch to the end—this may be the boundary message that saves your future.

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