The Avoidant is Keeping a Distance Because They Hurt You But It’s Not What They Want |Matthew Hussey

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Unlock the hidden emotional truth behind avoidant behavior in relationships. This powerful 31-minute motivational speech, “The Avoidant Is Keeping a Distance Because They Hurt You… But It’s Not What They Want,” dives deeply into the psychology of avoidant partners—why they pull away, what they fear, and how their distance is often rooted in unresolved wounds, not a lack of love.
If you’ve ever felt confused by mixed signals, emotional withdrawal, or someone who seems to push you away right when things get close, this video will help you understand the emotional patterns at play. Learn how to protect your peace, set boundaries with courage, and step into the kind of love you truly deserve—without chasing, guessing, or losing yourself.
This speech is designed to empower you with clarity, compassion, and strength. Whether you're healing from an avoidant relationship or trying to understand the person you love, this message will shift your perspective and help you reclaim your emotional power.

TIMESTAMPS :
00:00 – Opening Hook 🔥
01:10 – Why Avoidants Pull Away 🧠
04:30 – The Fear Behind Their Distance 💔
08:15 – When They Hurt You and Shut Down 😞
12:40 – The Shame They Never Admit 🤐
16:55 – Why Their Withdrawal Isn’t About You 🌫️
20:20 – Understanding Without Self-Sacrifice 💛
24:45 – What Healthy Boundaries Look Like 🛑
27:30 – You Deserve Mutual, Safe Closeness 💞
29:55 – Closing Message & Empowerment ✨
31:00 – Thank You & Goodbye 🙏

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