The Love Poem Andrea Gibson Wrote for Their Widow...and for You

Andrea Gibson was the poet laureate of Colorado and a giant of the spoken word poetry scene. This past July, Gibson died of ovarian cancer, leaving behind their devoted fans, friends, family and longtime partner, the poet Megan Falley.


For the last year of Gibson’s life, a film crew followed Andrea and Megan as they navigated countless treatments and moments of triumph. In the darkest of times, their connection grew. Their deeply moving love story is the focus of a new documentary, “Come See Me in the Good Light.”


On today’s episode of Modern Love, Megan Falley talks with our host Anna Martin about falling in love with Andrea Gibson and loving them through their cancer diagnosis and eventual death. Falley reckons with what it’s like to be a 37-year-old widow, and how despite Andrea being gone, they are very much still with her.


The song Megan talks about in this episode is called “Hold Down The Fort (https://chrispureka.com/hold-down-the...) .”


Megan Falley’s newsletter is called “Things That Don’t Suck (https://andreagibson.substack.com/) .”


Here’s how to submit a Modern Love Essay to The New York Times (https://www.nytimes.com/article/how-t...) .


Here’s how to submit a Tiny Love Story (https://www.nytimes.com/2018/09/19/st...) .


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