Guaranteed Way To Go To A Bar Alone & Make Friends With Strangers (Without Looking Creepy!)

Yes, it's possible to go to a bar by yourself and enjoy making friends with strangers (even if you're an introvert like me!) But how do you confidently strike up conversations with strangers without looking creepy? In this episode, I'm sharing real-life strategies that will help you start meaningful conversations, overcome social anxiety, and make new friends at a bar—without the fear of rejection.

0:00 - intro
1:15 - what if I get rejected
3:51 - what if you're awkward
4:52 - how to start a convo with a stranger
6:00 - DO's for bar interactions with strangers
12:31 - DON'Ts for bar interactions with strangers

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If the idea of talking to strangers makes you nervous, you’re not alone. Many of us worry about looking awkward, being ignored, or coming off the wrong way. But here’s the good news: Research shows that 97% of the time when you start a conversation, the other person will engage back. The fear of rejection? Mostly in our heads. This episode breaks down why rejection is far less likely than you think and how to shift your mindset so you can approach people with confidence.

Zoe also shares the exact dos and don’ts of making friends at a bar. Some of the best ways to break the ice include giving genuine compliments, asking engaging questions, and using open body language to signal that you’re approachable. On the flip side, the biggest mistakes? Staying glued to your phone, waiting for someone else to make the first move, or accidentally making people uncomfortable with forced conversation.

Through personal experience and expert-backed insights, this episode will show you how to make real connections, navigate social settings with confidence, and break free from loneliness. You don’t have to wait for friendships to happen—you can create them.

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