Financial GAPS in LOVE, Settling for LESS & NE-YO’s Dating Standards ft. Alison Wellington - Ep 419

In this episode of Decisions Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy WTF sit down with certified dating coach and relationship expert Alison Wellington, known for helping high-achieving women find lasting, secure love. They dive deep into why many successful women are still single, the dangers of dating significantly "down," and whether monogamy is still the gold standard for modern relationships.

The conversation turns spicy as they unpack NE-YO's controversial dating philosophy, explore what makes a "committed relationship," and address if women should ever change for a man — inspired by Alexis Skyy’s public confession about converting for love. Alison also explains why she believes marriage is still the best tool for building long-term wealth, even in a world where women don’t "need" men to thrive.

Topics like religious and political compatibility, sex in long-distance relationships, dating timelines, and when to issue ultimatums all get candid breakdowns. This is a must-listen for anyone navigating love while leveling up in life.

00:00 Intro and book promo
01:04 Guest intro – Alison Wellington
03:45 Dating apps and time-starved women
05:10 What high-achieving women want in dating
07:00 NE-YO and dating rules debate
10:15 Dating someone who earns less
13:20 Financial imbalance in relationships
15:45 Deadline mindset in dating
18:30 Why generalizations hurt dating advice
20:18 Soulmate myths and city dating debates
23:45 Decline of marriage and why it matters
27:00 Buying a home before marriage
30:15 Relationship ultimatums and long-distance issues
34:39 Do women settle in love?
37:15 Alexis Skyy and changing for love
40:00 Women’s personal red flags
43:10 Political and religious incompatibility
45:30 Why coaching beats content
47:00 Final thoughts on love, self-awareness, and dating smart
1:05:00 Outro and Patreon plug

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