These men you should never date.

There are no good men.”

“I always get bad dates, no matter what.”

“They all just want sex.”

“Men don’t want to invest in me.”

Ever caught yourself saying these things?

I hear this from women all the time.

Yet, you see your friends and colleagues marrying wonderful men, and you start to wonder… Is love just a matter of luck?

I used to think the same way when I started dating in 2019.

But here’s the truth: You are attracting the wrong men because of these three reasons.

1. You focus too much on bad dates.
The moment you have a bad date, you tell everyone in your life how awful he was. You replay the experience in your mind for days. You analyze every little detail, trying to figure out what went wrong.

Instead of letting it go, you stay stuck in that negative energy—and that energy attracts more of the same.

2. You get attached too quickly.
A man treats you well on the first few dates, and suddenly, you’re getting butterflies and fantasizing about a future with him.

Sound familiar? We've all done it.

But here’s the thing: You don’t really know him yet. A few great dates don’t mean much. If you don’t pace yourself emotionally, you risk getting attached to someone who isn’t right for you.

3. You have a "type"—and it’s limiting you.
I once had a friend who would only date men with blue eyes and blonde hair.

Having a preference isn’t bad. But being obsessed with a “type” keeps you stuck.

I used to think I could only date tall men. But when I opened myself up to different possibilities, I realized that connection matters more than height.

When you’re too focused on a specific "type," you’re chasing chemistry. But real chemistry grows when you feel safe, valued, and deeply connected.

Ladies, if you’re making these mistakes, attracting your Mr. Right will take a long time.

But you don’t have to do it alone.

Getting help is not a weakness—it’s courage.

In my coaching containers:
✨ I see you.
✨ I hear you.
✨ I give you customized support at every step of your love journey.
✨ I help you shift your mindset and attract high-quality men, both online and offline.
✨ I guide you to step into your feminine energy—the kind that draws in strong, masculine men.
✨ I teach you how to create deep emotional bonds that lead to lasting love.

Are you ready to attract your Mr. Right in 2025?

Drop the word “Love” in the comments, and let’s make it happen. ❤️

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