Ukwelapha kuqala ngesibongo - Addressing the Identity Crisis

Thokoza, 

Awukwazi ukwelapha umunutu osebenzisa isibongo esingafanele. Futhi awukwazi ukulungisa isibongo ngaphandle kokwazi umlando womuntu nezinqumo ezathathwa ubaba kanye nomama wakhe - nogogo nomkhulu wakhe. Ngoba kunezimfanelo ekumele zenziwe ukuze akwazi ukusebenzisa isibongo sikababa wakhe. Nowesimame okhetha ukweqela ngaphandle, ebe eganile ngokuphelela aze athola ingane nenye indoda leyo ngane esinkingeni. Ngicela nilalele nizwe ukuthi uthini ubaba uMkhize ngaloludaba.

You cannot heal someone who is carrying the incorrect surname. You need to start here. And you can correct the surname without knowledge of their history and the decisions taken their mother and father as well as their grandparents. This is because there are processes which need to be fulfilled for you to be able to use your father's surname. And the women who choose to step out despite being married correctly and fully, going as far as having another man's child - that child is in trouble. Please hear what Dr. Mkhize has to say on this matter.