Why Loud Behavior Wins Over Quiet at Work

You don’t need more confidence hacks.

You need to understand what your quiet is actually triggering in other people.
In this episode of Awfully Quiet, we break down the uncomfortable truth behind why loud behavior keeps winning at work, even when quiet people are just as capable, thoughtful, and ambitious.

This isn’t about personality.
It’s about how the human brain reads risk, safety, and leadership.
If you’ve ever been called “hard to read,” “too quiet,” or felt boxed into a version of yourself that doesn’t fit, this episode will change how you see what’s happening around you.

We look at:
🧠 Why your nervous system (and everyone else’s) is wired to distrust what it can’t read
🔊 How loudness reduces cognitive load and quietly signals safety
👀 What actually happens when you stay quiet in meetings, on Zoom, or at your desk
📉 How small assumptions turn into reputation — and career ceilings
🪞 Why being misunderstood is not a confidence problem, but a perception problem


Chapters
00:00 — Quiet Isn’t As Innocent As You Think
01:53 — The Evolutionary Wiring Behind Being “Hard to Read”
02:48 — Why Loud Feels Safe
03:20 — The Signal Gap
04:28 — From Assumption to Reputation
05:32 — Quiet Creates Tension Before It Creates Respect

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