Can A Man Lead Even When His Wife Disagrees? | Pastor Martin Mgiba

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[S3] EPISODE 1: BEING THE HEAD IS COSTLY

This episode is a conversation between husbands who are still learning what it truly means to be married. We reflect on how many of us entered marriage well-intentioned but underprepared, carrying single-life rhythms, unchecked assumptions, and a shallow understanding of leadership, submission, and accountability. What we once labelled as “control,” we now begin to recognize as covenant responsibility. This episode names the quiet shock many men experience when marriage asks more of us than we expected — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

Together, we wrestle with the deeper work of husbandhood: building healthy systems, and intentionally shaping the culture of our homes. We explore what leadership really looks like beyond clichés, presence, protection, emotional provision, spiritual direction, and courage in moments of tension. We speak candidly about resistance, shame, past failures, dry seasons, and the temptation to seek fulfilment outside the home when marriage feels costly. This is not theory, it’s lived experience, marked by mistakes, resilience, repentance, and growth.

At its core, this episode is a call back to brotherhood and responsibility. A reminder that no man is meant to carry marriage alone, and that healing and strength often come through honest community with other men who call out greatness, not weakness. This conversation is for husbands who are wounded but willing, unsure but committed, and hungry to lead their families with humility, courage, and faithfulness. If you’ve ever felt the weight of marriage and wondered, “Am I doing this right?” — this episode is for you.

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