When Narcissist in Tears, You Are in Trouble (Frustration-Aggression)

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Next time you see your narcissist lachrymose, flee away: you are in danger! Crying is a part of the prosody of entraining.

You are a wraith, an internal object. Defying this role frustrates the narcissist.

Frustration, loss of control, anxiety Emotional dysregulation of negative affects Challenged grandiosity (shame, vulnerability) Self-pity Virtue signaling Manipulation.

Partly Machiavellian emotional blackmail, guilt-tripping, and triggering empathy and maternal instincts.

Self-pity triggers splitting and psychopathic protector self-state (reminiscent of processual mechanism in MPD).

The narcissist is a potent adult with the mindset of child: frustration-aggression, magical thinking, temper tantrums, splitting of maternal figure.

Seeks to destroy the cause of his frustration but perceives it as temporary: it is all in his mind, so he has the power to restore you.

Frustration

Frustration-aggression hypothesis

Frustrative nonreward hypothesis

Frustration tolerance

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