SITTING WITH MJAY | EPISODE 43 : Go Bogwa ka Tshelete, Weaponized Manhood & Mdavazo Conversation

In this episode of Sitting with MJay, MJay opens the year by sitting with the bold, reflective, and unfiltered voices of Ouma and Captain My Captain for the first conversation of 2026, a discussion that challenges how we understand money, power, relationships, and emotional responsibility.

This conversation takes a deep dive into the idea of “go bogwa ka tshelete,” unpacking how growing up without money can shape a person’s identity, and how sudden access to wealth sometimes leads to entitlement, performative success, and looking down on those who are still struggling. We explore how money can shift attitudes, relationships, and one’s sense of worth.

The discussion then moves into relationships and emotional dynamics, where we examine how manhood and male insecurity are often weaponized, particularly by intimate partners or ex-partners. We reflect on how a man’s lack of confidence can be used as leverage to inflict emotional pain, assert control, or undermine his sense of self.

It is an honest, uncomfortable, and thought-provoking conversation that sets the tone for the year with depth, accountability, and reflection.

🧠 Topics Discussed:

✨ Go Bogwa ka Tshelete
How growing up without money affects behavior, identity, and how wealth can become a tool for validation and superiority.

✨ Weaponizing Manhood
How insecurity, vulnerability, and lack of confidence in men are sometimes used against them in relationships.

🎙️ Random Question of the Day:
Does money reveal who we truly are, or does it change us into something else?

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